Jealousy, jealousy, is it you or is it me 🎶🎵 la la la la la la… happy times; when you’re jealous you just have to make the most of that life-eating feeling . It’s one of the most devastating feelings and it’s a shame not to be learning something from it. If you respond wisely you’ll master how to shorten its existence when it appears… because, yeah, you’ll never get rid of it completely

Happened to me; happened to my best friend who just returned from a month trip in Asia. When she came back 90% of our conversation wasn’t about Asia, but about that French surfer she was jealous of because her boyfriend thought she’s sexy. And yeah, been there; burning of anger when my guy was looking at some hot chick and complimented her. Accept the girl is sexy! You can be too! Nothing more unattractive than making a scene out of it especially when drunk, culminating with a desperate need to be appreciated while you realise you’re screaming like a strangled monster and you’re make-up is runny…

Best thing to do: move your attention! Move your attention from that person to yourself; you don’t want that person to have more golden aura than yourself, then don’t pour your beautiful light on that person. You’re building up their energy while eating yours out. Start looking at yourself, admire your hair , your nailpolish, your brain, your tan… immediately jealousy will disappear because you’ll be reminding yourself of how lovely YOU are too. Then, when you’re calm, go figure out what is it that makes you lack confidence and start working on yourself.